hi people! i'm kinda like this forum thing, its pretty cool!

so i have an issue....i'm seeing this guy and we've been together for about a month now. he's really cool and a lot of fun to hang out with, but he has major baggage with his ex and i think he's not over her yet. for example, i went to his house last week...and he still has pictures of her up. they broke up a year ago.

we have a good time together and i would really like to take this relationship further, but i dont know if i should get myself into this. if he's not over her, he might turn out to be psycho about some of the issues he had with her....or have a fear of commitment....or worse. but he might not.

what should i do?

cutegyal ---

apparently this post is coming late, but really, still has pics of his ex all over the house. come on. you need to find out if they are very good friends, or if there is still something up. i know of friends who still meet up with their ex, but there's nothing emotional there. sounds like this guy still has feelings for the ex; not cool...not healthy. you don't need to walk into his memories of another girl. if he saw you carrying a pic of another guy in your purse (just an example), would he be cool with it? ask yourself if it's even worth it.....take care