I agree with pretty much everything that has been said. Very few men can actually come out and say "yeah, I am willing to give in." Guys like that women are more open to ideas such as dating, intimacy, going out and being a 'fun' date. The only thing is, when it comes to being just as 'modern' at home, they get all psycho about it. As a woman, I have no problems cooking, cleaning, taking care of my family --- or any other such responsibility. But as a man, don't take advantage of my willingness to live up to my responsibility. Know your boundries. Treat me with the same respect that you'd like, and live up to your responsibilities, just like I do.

And yes, I'd like to see guys come out and say otherwise...very few (if any) of you can. I'll tell you why --- it's in your innate nature to use the modernization of Indian women to get what you want, yet you will always expect your counterpart to behave as the traditional Indian woman. I'm not getting into that equality discussion -- that can be saved for another day. But just understand this --- as a guy, be fair and reasonable. Lose the ego and gain some respect.